Yes, you can use the law of attraction to attract anyone. In this article, I will share with you 10 ways on how to use the Law Of Attraction for a specific person.
But before that, Let’s take a look at what the law of attraction is and how it works real quick just as a refresher. Repetition is the mother of all learning, and Let’s be honest, we need repetition more than we know, especially to change a subconscious paradigm.
What is the Law of Attraction and How Does it Work?
The law of attraction is you being able to bring into your life what you wish for or desire. This has to do with using your imagination and actions to influence the world around you. All our thoughts turn into things eventually, and what you focus on expands.
How Does it Work?
To make this understandable, the law of attraction is like the law of gravity. Let’s say you’re holding a pen, when you leave the pen, it will go down, it will never go back up. So, anything heavy on earth is attracted to the center of the earth.
To understand this law of attraction, first, you have to understand that, we always attract into our lives the people, things, and resources in harmony with our current experience and dominant thoughts. This means that your life only gets better when you decide to get better.
So let’s say you want to be a better manager and see your business grow and get more money, all you have to do is to be a better version of yourself.
If you want to be a better boyfriend or girlfriend all you have to do is to become better than you were. The law of gravity is an unchanging law of the universe and the law of attraction is no different. So now let me share with you 10 ways you can attract a specific person using the Law of Attraction.
The Law Of Attraction For A Specific Person:
Before I outline these steps, I want to put out a disclaimer. If done correctly, you will likely end up with the person you want to attract. However, that doesn’t mean that the person is right for you or meant for you. It just means that you’re a mighty Spiritual Being living in a physical body.
Whether you and the person are right for each other will depend on so many factors. And even these factors may even change based on life decisions and the path you decide to take. That being said let’s get to it.
1). Change The Way that You Think About Yourself:
This means that you’re going to let go of limiting beliefs, you’re going to improve your vibration, you’re going to focus on the thoughts and feeling of having that person, and you’re going to continue to work on yourself and enjoy your life in the present moment.
Change of perception is what separates a fan from a potential love interest. Changing your perception will put you on an even playing field with this specific person and with anybody else who desires this person.
You have to change the way that you look at yourself, the way that you look at this person, and the way that you look at yourself in regard to this person.
What I want you to do is stop looking at the object of your affection as an object like a prize that you’re chasing after. You might not literally be thinking this person is my prize, but you are most likely treating them that way energetically or physically.
2). Don’t See It As A Challenge:
Very often I see people getting competitive and look at getting someone to notice them as a challenge. Not only will that put you in the wrong mental state, but it is not fair to that person because they are not your prize.
The person you want to attract is someone you want to have a potential future with or a relationship with. So, you have to treat them with that regard and respect. Do not chase people. When you think of someone as a prize, your subconscious mind is that you’re chasing this person and you will want to do anything to make this person want you, much like people will do anything to win.
This gives off the wrong vibrations for several reasons which I will share with you later. You have to start believing that this person is your equal- take them off that pedestal. When we idolize the people that we desire, we put physical distance between ourselves and them.
3). Improve Your Energy:
This is a lot like raising your vibration. However, it also entails working on past trauma or experiences that are weighing your energy down, and creating resistance and limiting beliefs.
Improving your energy means addressing your issues with finding love in general and your issues with having a relationship with the person you want to attract.
To work through this resistance, especially if it is a subconscious one you have no idea about, you want to think of all the negative things that could come from you being with this specific person.
This could range from you being afraid the person might cheat on you, or is going to hurt you, or any thought that is negative surrounding that situation you need to write it down and address it.
Trust me you have these thoughts buried down beneath you, so just think about what could happen that could be bad if you get the person in your life.
This is the time to work on believes that you have created based on infidelity, insecurity, and failure.
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4). Clear Up Your Thoughts:
Once you have identified all these negative energies hiding beneath your conscious mind, then it is time to clear them up.
You need to question them: Are they objectively true? Can you move on from them? Can you get over them? Can they be fixed? Can you let go of that fear of getting cheating on, or getting hurt again?. In order to be with this person, you need to clear your thoughts by asking yourself these questions.
This also means you need to clear up your act in general. If you’re doing anything damaging to yourself, you have to stop it now. This covers anything from negative self-talk such as you say, you’re too ugly for that person, the person will never take you seriously, or even you thinking you’re not good enough.
Also, you need to stop physical harm like physical abuse or drug abuse- you need to stop all of that now, and get your acts together.
Clearing up your thoughts and actions will not only make room in your life for the person you want but also, you are making room for a better life altogether for yourself.
This step might be the most difficult barrier to overcome because negative self-talk has been ingrained so deeply within us but it is time to rethink all those thoughts and rethink your life. Because talking down to yourself hasn’t helped you thus far, has it? This is the time to become your biggest fan and love yourself.
5). Focus On The Feeling (Extremely Important):
Focusing on the feeling of having that person that you love will shift the attention off of absence. Focusing on the feeling is even crucial than visualizing. I find that when we want something, we are super-focused on not having them already.
We always think in terms of ” I will be happy when this person is back in my life or is in my life” or you think ” I will be happy when I am in a relationship”. This is so counter-productive because these thoughts and feelings are making more lack for you. These thoughts indicate to the universe that, you do not have that relationship, and you’re focused on not having it. So, the universe will give you more of not having it.
So, in order to focus on your feelings and to put all that tension on those good feelings, and high vibrational feelings, I want you to imagine the way that you will feel when you’re with this person. This includes when you meet them for the first time, or on your first date, your first kiss, or whatever it may be, all I want you to do is to focus on how awesome it will be.
Think about those positive emotions and write them down, and think about how you will feel with them on a day to day basis.
6). Live Your Life Feeling These Emotions:
After you’ve written those feelings down it is now time to start living a life in which you are already feeling these feelings. That includes doing things that make you feel happy, confident, secure, stable, and successful all the time.
Just do things that make you feel accomplished and worth-while. Because at the end of the day, this is how we want to feel when we are with the person that we love or want to attract.
7). Detach Yourself:
As mentioned earlier, you need to stop treating the person you wanna attract as a prize. This includes texting them first and always, you need to stop that. When you stop that, not only will they start noticing you, they might also start showing some romantic interest in you.
When our energy doesn’t give off signs of desperation or need, people can feel that. I understand that you want to be with somebody so bad and immediate. However, you have to let go of that urgency. This is when you need to take on the aura of detachment.
So, instead of thinking your life is nothing without this person, you have to start thinking your life is worth it and because of that, the person is already yours.
8). Work On Yourself:
This has to do with you becoming the best version of yourself in order to attract this specific person. It is only fair if you’re a catch and if you’re also desirable to people thus if you want this person to desire you.
It is crucial for you to become aware that you’re already a catch and that you’re already worth it. Get to a point where you think and say ” why wouldn’t they want to be with me? I am dope”.
This step will also help you detach. If you’re focusing on improving yourself, the attention is taking off the absence, the lack, and the urgency.
I recommend you focus on your connections with the universe, to yourself, to your family, to nature, your friends, and the people that matter to you. Also, focus on your career, focus on your school, focus on your hobbies, and anything else that matters and makes you happy.
It is gloomy to waste your energy and time on someone or a day when they will be happy or will do all this stuff. The time is now, do not wait to live. Become a better person now and live now and that way you will be ready for this person to enter or re-enter your life.
This is the last but crucial step because if you do not get the other steps mentioned above right or try to make them work, this might backfire on you- it might lead to feelings of lack.
When you have had the chance to change your perspective of yourself, to improve your vibration, to focus on the feelings and everything I mentioned above, you will be at the perfect vibration and place to visualize.
When you are ready to visualize, try to see yourself with this person very clearly. Create a vivid picture of yourself with them. This includes what you will be doing, what your life will be with them, what you will look like together, where you will live and stuffs like that. See those images very clearly.
Note that, you cannot visualize at the same time you do the other steps. Just make sure that you’re giving off an easy vibration instead of that desperate urgent vibration that I discussed earlier.
If you feel like when you’re visualizing, the feelings and thoughts aren’t aligning with that visualization, do this visualization only after completing these other steps.
10). Believe In Yourself:
You have to know that you can attract anybody into your life even somebody who doesn’t know you exist. You have to know that you’re the operating power of what happens in your life because of your thoughts mixed with feelings. Believe in yourself, and trust me you will be given situations in which you can meet them or spend time with them. This advice also applies to get back with your ex.
Wrapping It Up:
So, in order to attract that special someone in your life, make sure that you change your perception about yourself and the person, do not see it as a challenge, live the life you wish to have with the person, work on yourself, detach yourself and believe in yourself, and you will see that the person will be drawn towards you.
What are you struggling with when it comes to the law of attraction and getting someone in your life? Let me know below, I would love to help you and get your questions answered!