Nothing hurts as much as a breakup. It hurts even more when you cannot get over your ex. The emotional hurt that you go through gets so overwhelming at times that you wish things were different.
You do not have to wallow in your pain. Get your ex-boyfriend back by following this simple guide. (pay close attention to what I say at the end)
10 Ways On How To Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back
1). Ask Yourself Why You Want Him Back:
Do not jump back into the relationship without asking yourself the most important question. Is he worth it? Do I really need him back in my life?
If all your answers are positive, then you start working on strategies to get him back.
2). Try Ignoring Him:
This could go two ways. You might ignore him then he moves on or he might realize what he had and come back running. This will also help you to move on and be around your ex-boyfriend without turning into an emotional wreck.
3). Make No Contact For A While:
Instead of still meeting up with your ex without feeling emotional, try disappearing from his life completely to make him realize that life without you is nothing.
Erase all memories of him and let him miss you so much that he will come back knocking.
4). Make Self-Improvements On Yourself:
If you show your boyfriend that, the breakup affected you so much that you became a complete wreck; he will not want you back. Show him that life without him is good and thrive to look appealing and attractive to a point where he will start regretting ever letting you go. Spoil yourself by looking fit, buying new clothes, excelling in your career or school, and so on.
5). Don’t Act Desperate:
The temptation to call or text him will be overwhelming. Do not show him you are desperate to have him back to stay away from that phone lest you break into tears and start begging for forgiveness.
6). Start A Conversation:
This might go two ways. Either he might call you first or you can initiate the first conversation after the breakup. Whichever way the conversation starts, make it very short and very simple. Leave him guessing about what else you wanted to say. Make sure there is absolutely no talk about the breakup of the relationship in your first conversation.
7). Set Up A Meeting:
After the first phone conversation, you can agree to have the first meeting. Like in the phone conversation, do not show any desperation and keep the meeting almost formal.
Do not show any emotions and do not show him any romantic interest. You can, however, flirt just a little to build up some sexual tension. When you think he has had enough, cut the meeting short and leave. If this does not make him come crawling back, then he might just be over you.
8). Do Not Have Sex On The First Date:
If you build that sexual tension, he might want to get you somewhere private for makeup sex. Do not agree to any sex suggestions no matter how badly your body betrays you. Let him suffer and come begging.
9). Do Not Take Too Long To Reconnect:
If you truly love him and want him back, do not ignore him for a long period because he might jump right into another relationship thinking that you too have moved on. Just take enough time to weigh the situation and decide whether he is the right person, you need in your life.
10). Lay Out Some Ground Rules:
Finally, when you make the decision to get back together, work out on the issues that made you separate in the first place. Make him promise to change if he was on the wrong and do likewise if you were the cause of the breakup.
Just follow the above steps and you will be fine. Keep in mind though that agency has a huge role in this. You CAN NOT FORCE SOMEONE TO WANT TO GET BACK WITH YOU. It will always be up to them.
You must be respectful and understanding of that. I have seen so many people try to FORCE things on people thinking that it works, and it just makes the situation that much worse. So be mindful of them, and if it’s not meant to be, don’t flip out about it.
There are literally 7 billion people in the world, I think you will manage and figure something else out. But I do believe that all things are possible to those who believe. Just keep the above in mind as you follow the 10 tips and you will be fine.
Also if you want, try this little exercise because I have seen it to wonders in my life and in other people’s lives. Before you go to sleep at night, get yourself completely relaxed. Breathe in and out until the tension leaves your body. Then when you are feeling good, relaxed, calm, and worry-free, visualize you both together doing something fun.
Really feel the excitement of it and the thrill. The key here is to FEEL good about it because as you do this you are literally causing things on the outside to change to match that feeling.
Once you feel really good and are happy, simply drop off to sleep and let it go. I would do this every night and watch what will be attracted into your life through the power of your Subconscious Mind.
You can even say “Thank You” with feeling over and over and over again as you are falling asleep, and your Subconscious Mind will do the rest. I know it sounds too good to be true, but it works. It’s not magic, it’s you working with Universal Laws just like Gravity.
What you feel inside as you fall asleep at night is what is going to determine your events in the future. You will literally see things begin to happen that are in alignment with your feelings and vision. I have seen this happen to others so many times I cant count. But practice this amazing technique and let me know how it works for you.
If you have questions let me know below, I would be happy to answer them for you. Wishing you the best and I know things will work out PERFECTLY for you.