It has been the fantasy of young men through the ages, the desire of millions, and a constant source of mystery and delusion for bachelors throughout our world.
What are the ways to be more attractive to women? How can you get women to be more interested and attracted to yourself? Is there even a way?
Well, for starters, you can now simply ask women. But for those who have tried, only little has been gleaned from the honest but vague picture put in front of them. We try to solve the mystery once and for all. Here are the top 10 tips on how to be more attractive to women.
10 Tips On How To Be More Attractive To Women:
1). Be Polite:
Well, the movies may have taught us differently and brash and angry young men do not really portray politeness and yet win the lady’s heart every time.
However, the real world rarely works that way in the twenty-first century. Politeness is a much-appreciated quality among women. It does not convey that you are soft but simply puts you forward as a mature and desirable guy and a thorough gentleman.
2). A Good Dressing Sense:
As pretentious as it may sound, having a good dressing sense has much to do with your attractiveness. Yes, a constantly disheveled look may be appealing but you have to pull it off correctly. Having a casual look and actually being shabby are two different things.
Women don’t always expect you to look dapper but you have to be well-dressed for the occasion, whether it is a wedding at the church, a walk at the beach, or even just chilling at the mall. Being well dressed helps put your best self forward at all times.
3). Respect Women:
It is incredible how many young men actually believe that women expect them to somehow consider women to be below themselves.
They feel that society is built that way and somehow it is okay and acceptable. Well, it is not. Women deserve as much of your respect as your mother or father does and this applies to any person irrespective of gender.
If you are not respectful to women, you can bid goodbye to the thought of women ever being attracted to you. This quality will attract women as much as its lack will repel them.
4). A Good Sense of Humor:
If you can make a woman laugh, she will love it. Whether she will be attracted to you or not is a different issue altogether but it is a straight road to definite friendliness.
Women love a guy with a good sense of humor and you need to step up your game. You can surely learn some basic tips and tricks and lovable jokes now and then.
Don’t force humor into every line but be humorous naturally. Crack jokes where they fit in and being funny might just be your ticket to finding a partner for life.
Most women agree is chivalry is dead. However, they love a man who can prove to them that it isn’t! Be the guy, a woman loves to be around.
Pamper her gently. Hold the door for her, pull a chair, pay for the dinner, and let her know in the most subtle tones how amazing her hair looks.
Every woman loves to be pampered. It is a dream to find a thorough gentleman who puts the effort in chivalry. Most women secretly wish and believe that they deserve a prince and it is your job to make her feel like a princess.
Listening is a lost art. However, you must be prepared to always listen more than you talk. It makes the other person feel like they are being heard and that their thoughts, opinions, and just words, matter to you.
This is important as any semblance of a relationship is based on hearing each other out and appreciating the other person’s feelings before sharing your own.
If you listen to her and respond thoughtfully, it will surely attract her towards you as she feels that she is important and that her presence matters to you.
7). Be Strong:
This may or may not mean physical strength. What this means is that all women appreciate the strength of a man in any form.
If you are physically strong, it is appealing and if not, you should certainly demonstrate a strength of character. You must be able to make decisions, be bold, and take control.
Be passionate about the things you love and the causes you believe in. These qualities have been appreciated by women through the ages and remain a strong indicator if a woman will put her faith in you.
8). Do Not Be Fake:
This is not as simple as it sounds. What this means is you should not try to be someone you are not. Women hate this in a person and are constantly put off by men trying too hard.
You do not have to emulate a character from the movies or try to be that friend of yours that every woman seems to love. This is not only easy to spot but will quickly wear off. It is also a great turn off and therefore, just being yourself is the best strategy.
9). Notice The Little Things:
Every woman remembers a thoughtful gesture. You have to have an eye for detail. Notice the changes in a woman, maybe the haircut or any simple detail that changes.
If you mention this in a conversation, it instantly enhances your appeal. Also, remember the details of her family, her favorites, her stories, and other things that are important to her.
10). Compliment Her:
When you compliment any person, it enhances your appeal to any woman who notices this. When you compliment her, she may brush it off but every woman loves a compliment. Make it a habit to include this positive behavior in your daily life. A good compliment never hurt anybody.
Complementing people is one of the quickest ways to win people over especially if you do a genuinely. I always try to leave people with the impression of increase by either a genuine comment or some sort of uplifting thing that makes them feel better. When you do this with women they really appreciate it a lot more than men for some reason.
These are the ten most common elements that can help you improve your appeal for women. While there is no magic wand to give you the power to attract women to yourself, this list can certainly help you make progress in that direction.
Always show interest in women. Always show that you care through your kind words, actions, and the things you say. Women are very sacred.
And they live quite an example for men and a lot of times make men more of a man than they already are. I think women are very special, and such a blessing on this earth. They should be treated with the utmost respect, and love than any other.
Just by doing that you become more attractive. Women will feel different about you. Kindness, understanding, and patients are extremely important.
Guys tend to think with their you know what, well women tend to think with her feelings. If we can learn to step inside the mind of a woman and operate like they do it becomes a whole Nother ball game and much easier.
What do you advise to be more attractive to women but has not been mentioned here? I’d love to hear your thoughts comment below let’s start a discussion.